Imperfection and impatience

When we are impatient with the imperfections of others, it is because we are impatient with our own imperfections. It makes us afraid to try things in front of others because of the way we view ourselves and thus how we think others will view us; this is also how we view others when they perform imperfectly in front of us. We think "how embarrassing." It is only embarrassing for those who make it so for themselves.